If we take a look at the meaning of the word Tantra , which is a Sanscriet word, (Sanscriet is an old language that does not exist anymore) then tantra means literally that what is woven or in other words that what is connected. In tantra we work with connection: we ask ourselves the question: how can I connect in a better, healthier way with myself and from there, how can I connect in a healthy way with somebody else. For tantricas a good or healthy connection starts in the first place in their own hearts, that’s why we call Tantra, the path of the heart. And by far the most important quality of the heart is to love, so tantra is the path of love.

How do we learn Tantra?

In tantra, we are learning through experience, not so much by theory or knowledge. In tantra we experience mostly through exercises with our body, sometimes with our mind. In the experience we are working a lot with pleasure, so in tantra learning by experience is a lot of fun, we are not learning by suffering. In tantra we mostly don’t give the answers, we are showing you the path to find the answers yourself, by experience.

When is Tantra something for me?

If you are looking for a more balanced, happy and joyful life that is lived from the heart, or if you want to liberate yourself of certain limitations, judgements or dogmas that don’t serve you anymore, you could consider to follow the path of Tantra.

Why should I follow a Tantra workshop or session in this school?

In the Connective Tantra School , safety, respect, expertise, kindness and care are the keywords. We provide for our participants a warm, safe heaven were they can explore, grow, transform and enjoy, in their own rhythm. Everybody is always fully accepted just the way he or she is. In our workshops and sessions all exercises are optional, nothing is mandatory. All our facilitators are experienced, certified tantra teachers who work from their heart without any judgement. Before each workshop or session we will always organize a video contact with new participants to learn to know each other, to talk about eventual concerns and to answer all questions posed.

What are the Benefits of Tantra?

Tantra workshops offer powerful tools to live more fully, embrace both oursexual and spiritual essence, and cultivate deeper, more harmonious relationships. Explore the unique benefits for: COUPLES / WOMEN / MEN

Can I participate as a couple?

Most sessions and workshops are open for singles, couples or any other relation form. However sometimes we organize workshops especially for a group of singles or couples. If this is the case, this is clearly mentioned.

How is Tantra related to sexuality?

As an important part of life, healthy sexuality is a topic that is covered in our tantra sessions and workshops. According to the Tantra philosophy all contact between human beings should start and be anchored in the heart and this also counts for sexual contact. If a sexual encounter between human beings is anchored in the heart, we call this encounter a sacred sexual encounter. So in Tantra we try to lift sexuality to a higher dimension by including our hearts. Other aspects related to sexuality like desires, boundaries and radical honesty are also topics that are covered in our workshops and sessions.

Does my gender identification or sexual preference matter in Tantra?

At the Connective Tantra School we always fully accept and welcome every sexual preference or gender identification without any judgment or opinion. In our sessions and workshops the keywords are connection and love , and as a tantra school we are open to all forms of expression of those two beautiful items.

Do I need to be naked during Tantra workshops or sessions?

It is neither mandatory or necessary to be naked during Tantra workshops or sessions. However, in certain circumstances, for instance in a Tantra massage setting, it can be convenient to be (partially) naked, but there is always a total free choice of the participant in this matter.

How can I take contact or inscribe myself?

For any further information, for all your questions, for a request to a free personal contact by video call or for all inscriptions, you can fill in the contact form and we will get in contact with you very soon.

Is it possible to become a Tantra facilitator myself?

The Connective Tantra School also organizes trainings for people who have the ambition to become a Tantra facilitator or a Tantra massage practitioner. Those trainings exist of a series of workshops followed by an internship, supervision and a cap stone project.

Mónica & Peter

Founders of the Connective Tantra School

“We are using the love that runs between us as a healing force for others”

We founded the Connective Tantra School in Marnes, Spain.

As a married couple, we share a deep connection on every level of existence, channeling the love between us as a powerful force for healing and service in workshops, trainings and consultations.

We are living proof that a committed, fulfilling relationship can thrive alongside an exciting and adventurous life.

“Ancient Eastern wisdom
for modern Western people”

“Ancient Eastern wisdom for modern Western people”

The vision and mission of the Connective Tantra School

Tantra is an ancient Eastern spiritual movement whose first traces date back to more then 5.000 years ago, and who underwent a lot of influences from different Eastern religions.

Today in the East, people practice Tantra within the Eastern traditions of Hinduism and Buddhism.

For us modern people living in the West, it is not always easy to fully understand and embrace these Eastern traditions and wisdoms, and as a result Tantra can seem elusive and distant from our daily lives.

Realizing this, the Connective Tantra School decided to adapt these Eastern wisdoms and knowledges, to Western modern standards so that they could be more fully understood and better integrated in our daily modern lives here in the West.

By translating the rich, deep and often complex wisdoms of the East into a simple Western language, and combining this with what the modern Western world has to offer in the field of Psychology, Breath Work and Body Work, we created a model that allows us to organize easy accessible, pleasant and learn full Tantra workshops, who will continue to influence your further life.

Peter
Aelbrecht

(1965)

About me

After working for 32 years, as a doctor in medicine in the field of prevention, chronic life quality issues and trauma related problems, and after having followed the path of Tantra for the last 20 years, I decided to follow my heart and stopped working as a doctor to become a full time Tantra facilitator.
In my work as a Tantra facilitator, my qualities that allow me to serve are: bringing joy, being in loving presence, holding space for you and creating clarity around certain issues.
As an author, I have written a series of best selling self help books about energy known under the title “Homo Energeticus”.

I offer individual Tantra consultations, Coaching sessions, Holistic massages and Tantra massages.

Together with my wife Monica we facilitate Tantra workshops and trainings for groups and Tantra massage trainings private or in group.
We offer as well consultations for couples around relation issues, as well as private 4 hands Tantra massages.

Trainings and certifications

2004-2007:
International School of Personal Structural Development, Brugge, Belgium: level 1 to level 7.

2008:
TAO school, Antwerpen, Belgium: year-long training TAO.

2009:
Body to chill, Nijmegen, Holland: year-long training tantra.

2010:
Kasteel de Schans, Opoeteren, Belgium: year-long training for couples.

2011:
Kasteel de Schans, Opoeteren, Belgium: year-long training for men.

2012-2013:
Centrum Voor Tantra, Amsterdam, Holland: 2 year tantra training for singles and couples.

2014:
Kasteel de Schans, Opoeteren, Belgium: year-long training for massage.

2015-2016:
Centrum Voor Tantra, Amsterdam, Holland: 2 year tantra training for couples.

2017:
Kasteel de Schans, Opoeteren, Belgium: year-long training sexuality as the basis for growth.

2018:
Centrum Voor tantra, Amsterdam, Holland: tantra training “Looking for the divine in yourself”.

2019:
Centrum Voor Tantra, Amsterdam, Holland: Kashmiri tantra massage training.

2020:
Wellness Academie, Nederland:chakra therapy training.

2023:
Tantra Bridge, Tenerife, Spain: tantra massage training.

2023:
Kasteel de Schans, Opoeteren, Belgium: tantra massage training.

2023-2024:
School of Lauri Handlers, Phoenix, USA: certified Sex and Happinez coach

2024:
Samma Karuna, Koh Pangang, Thailand: tantra teacher training.

2023-2025: International School of Temple Arts (ISTA): level 1, level 2, assistant, practitioner training: module 1 and module 2, graduated ISTA practitioner.

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Mónica Peña
Fernandez

(1977)

About me

Through my connection with Peter, I was introduced to the path of Tantra—and from the very first moment, it felt like coming home. I had a deep sense that this was who I truly am and where I want to devote my life. Since that moment, everything changed. After three years of intensive training, I decided to leave my career in sales and step fully into my role as a Tantra facilitator.

As a Tantra facilitator, I bring playfulness, intuition, and a heart-centered presence to my work—qualities that allow me to truly serve others on their journey.

I offer individual Holistic massages and Tantra massages.

Together with my husband Peter we facilitate Tantra workshops and trainings for groups and Tantra massage trainings private or in group.
We offer as well consultations for couples around relation issues, as well as private 4 hands Tantra massages.

Trainings and certifications

2022: Sadhaka Tantra, Orsin, France: tantra training.

2023: Tantra Bridge, Tenerife, Spain: tantra massage training.

2023: La Casa Dorada, Tarragona, Spain: intimacy training.

2023: Kasteel de Schans, Opoeteren, Belgium: tantra massage training.

2023: Tantra Canarias, Tenerife, Spain: Kundalini Energy tantra training.

2023: Inner truth academy, Tenerife, Spain: tantra training.

2024: Samma Karuna, Koh Pangang, Thailand: tantra teacher training.

2024: La Casa Dorada, Tarragona, Spain: intimacy training.

2024: Watsupath academy, Madrid, Spain: Watsu training level1.

2025: Watsupath academy, Madrid, Spain: underwater sound healing training.

2023-2025: International School of Temple Arts (ISTA): level 1, level 2, assistant, practitioner training: module 1 and module 2, graduated ISTA practitioner.

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